Narcissists Demand Loyalty But Give None
Did you know narcissists are REALLY loyal? It’s true! They’re always standing up for, defending, and agreeing with… THEMSELVES! Narcissists are loyal to what best serves THEM at any given moment. Which means they can’t be loyal to another person because at some...
Narcissistic Supply is the Narcissist’s Version of Self-Esteem
Narcissists don’t seek to BUILD self-worth. They seek to GAIN narcissistic supply. Here’s why that difference is so significant: Self-worth seeks what’s best for ALL – narcissistic supply seeks what’s best for ME. Self-worth is an INTERNAL process that comes...
Narcissists Use Information Against You
Thoughtful questions make us think that the speaker is thoughtful, too. That’s why narcissists ask all kinds of “thoughtful” questions at the beginning of a relationship. You assume they’re “getting to know you”…. When in reality, they’re “sourcing” you for...
Narcissistic Delusion
Narcissists often seem “out of touch” with reality. And this isn’t just because of their gaslighting and denial. It’s also because they can be incredibly delusional! The most obvious way you see this is through their “delusions of grandeur”. They think they’re:...
The Perfect Candidate for a Narcissist
Narcissists are on the hunt for people with specific behaviors and traits. This is because their difficult and antagonistic personalty style means that they’re not very “agreeable” or “easy going”. So they need certain types of people around them in order to behave...
Chelsey Brooke Cole is a psychotherapist, best-selling author, speaker, and coach specializing in narcissistic abuse and relational trauma. Praised as "Enlightening and Empowering" Chelsey's new book, If Only I'd Known! How to Outsmart Narcissists, Set Guilt-Free Boundaries, and Create Unshakeable Self-Worth is available wherever books are sold.
