by Chelsey Brooke Cole | Jul 27, 2022 | empath, introverts, narcissistic abuse, narcissists, relationships, toxic relationships
We should be looking *much* more closely at someone’s actions than their words. People can say anything they want. We use the same process (speaking) to tell both a truth and a lie. Many people become overwhelmed with trying to decipher what’s healthy or unhealthy,...
by Chelsey Brooke Cole | Jul 27, 2022 | narcissistic abuse, narcissists, toxic relationships, trauma
When you’re being devalued by a neglectful narcissist, they put you down in subtle ways. Contemptuous comments. Avoiding compliments. Withholding affection. They act like you don’t exist. If you cry, they don’t console you or show emotion. If you talk to them,...
by Chelsey Brooke Cole | Jul 26, 2022 | narcissistic abuse, toxic relationships
Do you know why you always feel so confused, foggy, and disoriented when dealing with toxic people? Because you’re only EVER dealing with the tip of the iceberg. What they’re SAYING vs. what they’re DOING (when you’re not looking) – are two VERY different...
by Chelsey Brooke Cole | Jul 25, 2022 | narcissistic abuse, narcissists, toxic relationships
Are narcissists *always* cruel?Why can they be both nice AND mean at times?They don’t treat everyone poorly – maybe I’m the problem? Let’s break this down. Most narcissists are very charming, act like social chameleons and can blend in seamlessly into any...
by Chelsey Brooke Cole | Jul 24, 2022 | narcissistic abuse, narcissists, toxic relationships, trauma
Walking away from or setting boundaries with toxic people is difficult enough on its own. But add in flying monkeys? And it can feel near impossible. You see, narcissists can only survive if people believe their lies and manipulations. That’s why they’re often very...
by Chelsey Brooke Cole | Jun 20, 2022 | narcissistic abuse, relationships, toxic relationships
Some relationships myths will destroy you – here’s why. We’ve all heard them. Relationship advice that’s supposed to “help” you. It tells us what to believe about relationships, how to make relationships “work”, and what you can and can’t expect from a...